Reading the latest long discussion threads in MetaFilter and then reading this and this made me think, so I decided to share my two cents.
I agree with Stewart that, for the most part, today’s problems are less severe than the past’s. Reading it made me thing of the wheel-thing in Disneyworld where as it moves from the 60s to the 70s and so on, everyone sings about how they’re living in the best of times. (For those of you who’ve never seen this, I will try to find a link.) While there are still a lot of issues to resolve, there are many improvements that have already been made and the past is and has been far from perfect.
I also sympathize with Matt‘s frustration but have a slightly different perspective on the issue. I’ve been lucky enough to come from a well-to-do background. My parents could afford to offer me many luxuries that others didn’t have. I managed to come to the United States cause they could afford to send me to college without a scholarship, which is truly difficult to get as a foreigner with my kind of background. I tried hard not to take advantage of the situation and worked hard during college to receive both my Bachelors and Masters simultaneously to make sure their sacrifices weren’t for nothing.
Since I was seven, I wanted to be a computer programmer. I didn’t even know enough about the machines to make an educated decision but I wanted it anyhow. So I went to a school known for its good computer science program and studied hard. I graduated and took a job in the field and I should have been happy cause I’d achieved my lifelong goal, right? Well, several months ago, I decided that I wasn’t doing enough good for the world. Instead of spending my days in a cubicle, I wanted to go out there and touch people, change people’s lives, make the world a better place.
While I agree with Matt that there’s so much to change and that it’s an unreasonable goal to set, I have a slightly differing view on what constitutes as change. All of us would agree that finding a cure for cancer would be a drastic improvement to humankind. A cure for any major disease would be a huge accomplishment. I know that it’s unlikely I will find that cure. Actually, it’s impossible since I’m not even trying to. I have the highest respect for those who are and I’m thankful for people like that in the world, for without the people who try to achieve these unreasonable goals, we would never move forward in big strides.
What I can do, however, is make small strides. It’s unlikely that I can change a million people’s lives, but it’s not only possible, but highly plausible that I can change one person’s life. I might even be able to change five people’s lives, or maybe thirty. Even more. I feel that, if I’ve made one person’s life truly better, my life has been worthwhile. I know that’s an optimistic look on things but all great things start with a small step. What if you helped some kid decide to go to school and he grew up to be the man who found a cure for cancer? Would you, then, think your life had a meaning?
In an effort to make my life more meaningful, I decided to reduce my work to three days a week and use the other two to volunteer. Have I saved the world? Nope, nowhere close. Have I made a drastic change? Not, yet, but I plan to and I’m hanging on to the belief that I can.
I’m not saying that everyone should care to change the world, neither am I saying that it would be easy to do so. All I’m saying is that you shouldn’t undermine the importance of a small change. You might not have the power to rid the world of all bigoted people, but you do have the opportunity to educate the two or three that might be at close proximity to your surroundings.
All this talk makes me think of two quotations I like by two amazing people. The first is a well-known saying by Ralph Waldo Emerson. “To laugh often and much; to win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children; to earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends; to appreciate beauty, to find the best in others; to leave the world a little better; whether by a healthy child, a garden patch or a redeemed social condition; to know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived. This is the meaning of success.” Again, maybe it’s an optimistic view, but I believe it.
The second by George Bernard Shaw, says: “Reasonable people adapt themselves to the world. Unreasonable people attempt to adapt the world to themselves. All progress, therefore, depends on unreasonable people.” All I can say to that one is that I strive to be unreasonable and I hope you all do the same.
Looking back at all my words above, I wonder why I even bothered to write all this. I guess the main reason is that when I read pieces like Matt’s I get saddened by people’s loss of hope. Yes, there’s a lot of work to be done but please don’t be sad that you’re one of the rare people who think about improving the world. The world might never reach your ideal and it might be true that few things will change in your lifetime but if we stop being unreasonable and trying, even those small changes will not happen. The world needs as many ‘unreasonable people’ as possible.
I’m glad that Matt says he won’t stop trying and I hope all the other disillusioned souls out there feel similarly cause if everyone stops trying, how will progress ever be made?
My apologies to Matt and Stewart if I’ve misinterpreted any of their words. I don’t know either of them personally or otherwise. I certainly didn’t have the intention of making it seem like they might have said something that they didn’t. And if I have, please feel free to let me know and I will make all the necessary changes.
Another set of apologies for having such a long post, I will try to move this to a page of its own.
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