Right Now

Sorry about not updating last night. I was watching the Presidential Debate and then I went to sleep. I feel like I don’t have much to say lately. Partly cause I am quite exhausted mentally, partly cause when the day’s over, I just want to veg in front of the TV or curl into bed with a good book. So between my Monday night class and the long days, thought-updates have been infrequent. I expect that will change at some point.

In the meantime, here’s what else is going on:

  • I’ve begun to think about Christmas already. Starting my December Daily and even bought some train tickets for mid-December already.
  • I was honored to be on Paperclipping Roundtable yesterday. You can listen here if you’d like.
  • I am reading about five books simultaneously which I never ever do. Three of them are non-fiction, but still, this is very unlike me and shows my lack of focus lately.
  • I’ve been trying to make some major decisions and I’ve noticed lately that I just blow everything out of proportion. I don’t like to take the next step unless I know how five steps down the road is going to turn out.
  • Even sitting down to do art has been a bit of a chore which is saying a lot.
  • I am still exercising daily (just passed my two-year mark this week.) but it’s been a struggle for the last two months.
  • I finally booked an appointment to go back to the trainer next week.
  • Now if I could only fix the food situation, too. And not just me but for the kids, too.
  • I am in the middle of Unraveling and Brave Girl Art Camp online classes. I love them both but am not dedicating enough time/energy to either. I think 2013 will be a lot more about finishing and redoing the classes I took this year and last year.
  • I’ve been thinking a lot about my word for 2013. I have a lot of ideas and I keep deciding on one and then changing it up. Savor has served me well and I really love it and don’t want to let go of it. In fairness, I felt the same way about “free” last year this time.
  • I’ve begun some of my art projects for 2013 already. Just feeling my way and seeing how much I like them. I’ve also been thinking about The Savor Project (my version of PL) and whether and how I will continue with it.
  • The kids’ school had a pipe burst so school has been closed for two days and will be closed for another two. Then two days on and then 3 days off again. It’s been a blessing not to have to set alarms, get lunches and drive back and forth four times a day. I love having them around, too.
  • I really wish time would stop for about two weeks so I could catch up on all my TV, books, art and personal projects. Then it can start up again and I can be with people I love and do work all without guilt.
  • I miss meditating. I keep saying I will do it but each day as I lie down in bed, I realized I didn’t do it again. But I amย still listening to Tara Brach and still enjoying every single moment of it.
  • I am afraid that before I get my new routine down, it will be mid-November and then it will all come undone with holidays and more holidays. Next thing we know it will be 2013. I am not ready yet.

And there you go. A bit of what’s going on here. What’s going on with you?

4 comments to Right Now

  • I relate to the picture that you used for this post. Things are going in lots of directions in my life too. I am struggling to stay focused. I purposely have added a lot to my plate and have placed high expectations on myself to build a good life in a new place. I hope that it pays off in the end and that things calm down sometime in 2013. I should start thinking about my 2013 word and some concrete things to aim for in the next year. Maybe that will give me some focus.

  • Zeynep

    Karen, no need to apologize, this is your own site! You can post or not post, it’s all up to you! Take a night off ๐Ÿ™‚ Post a funny picture of Nathan with a mustache instead of a thoughtful missive! It’s all good.

    Sara – I am starting to realize that whenever I have high expectations of myself, I freeze up. Literally, I can’t even get started on the project b/c I’m worried about letting myself and everyone else down. Whenever I have low expectations or actually zero expectations, I perform well. Your mileage may vary of course, but consider not having expectations ๐Ÿ˜‰

  • Karen, I can completely identify with your third-to-last bullet point. I have so many creative projects I want to work on, so many books I want to read, Netflix movies gathering dust, and stuff on the DVR. But there are so few hours in the day once all the have-tos are done to enjoy these things. I fully support your impossible-yet-alluring idea! ๐Ÿ™‚

  • Thanks for asking! I am at loose ends right now. I am doubting myself as a parent right now. My son has become increasingly stubborn about everything and I have no idea how to deal with it. He’s not quite 4. Yelling doesn’t help and in fact makes it worse, but I am at a complete loss. So 8 yell and feel bad. And then he yells which makes me madder. I am wondering if there are parenting books to help me, because I have no answers. I don’t want to lose my sweet boy. So this overshadows everything else in my world. I can’t enjoy books, scrapping, crochet or geocaching with this over my head. But I try to do things we love to keep some happiness in our world. I am spinning…

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