Sorry about not updating last night. I was watching the Presidential Debate and then I went to sleep. I feel like I don’t have much to say lately. Partly cause I am quite exhausted mentally, partly cause when the day’s over, I just want to veg in front of the TV or curl into bed with a good book. So between my Monday night class and the long days, thought-updates have been infrequent. I expect that will change at some point.
In the meantime, here’s what else is going on:
- I’ve begun to think about Christmas already. Starting my December Daily and even bought some train tickets for mid-December already.
- I was honored to be on Paperclipping Roundtable yesterday. You can listen here if you’d like.
- I am reading about five books simultaneously which I never ever do. Three of them are non-fiction, but still, this is very unlike me and shows my lack of focus lately.
- I’ve been trying to make some major decisions and I’ve noticed lately that I just blow everything out of proportion. I don’t like to take the next step unless I know how five steps down the road is going to turn out.
- Even sitting down to do art has been a bit of a chore which is saying a lot.
- I am still exercising daily (just passed my two-year mark this week.) but it’s been a struggle for the last two months.
- I finally booked an appointment to go back to the trainer next week.
- Now if I could only fix the food situation, too. And not just me but for the kids, too.
- I am in the middle of Unraveling and Brave Girl Art Camp online classes. I love them both but am not dedicating enough time/energy to either. I think 2013 will be a lot more about finishing and redoing the classes I took this year and last year.
- I’ve been thinking a lot about my word for 2013. I have a lot of ideas and I keep deciding on one and then changing it up. Savor has served me well and I really love it and don’t want to let go of it. In fairness, I felt the same way about “free” last year this time.
- I’ve begun some of my art projects for 2013 already. Just feeling my way and seeing how much I like them. I’ve also been thinking about The Savor Project (my version of PL) and whether and how I will continue with it.
- The kids’ school had a pipe burst so school has been closed for two days and will be closed for another two. Then two days on and then 3 days off again. It’s been a blessing not to have to set alarms, get lunches and drive back and forth four times a day. I love having them around, too.
- I really wish time would stop for about two weeks so I could catch up on all my TV, books, art and personal projects. Then it can start up again and I can be with people I love and do work all without guilt.
- I miss meditating. I keep saying I will do it but each day as I lie down in bed, I realized I didn’t do it again. But I amย still listening to Tara Brach and still enjoying every single moment of it.
- I am afraid that before I get my new routine down, it will be mid-November and then it will all come undone with holidays and more holidays. Next thing we know it will be 2013. I am not ready yet.
And there you go. A bit of what’s going on here. What’s going on with you?
I relate to the picture that you used for this post. Things are going in lots of directions in my life too. I am struggling to stay focused. I purposely have added a lot to my plate and have placed high expectations on myself to build a good life in a new place. I hope that it pays off in the end and that things calm down sometime in 2013. I should start thinking about my 2013 word and some concrete things to aim for in the next year. Maybe that will give me some focus.
Karen, no need to apologize, this is your own site! You can post or not post, it’s all up to you! Take a night off ๐ Post a funny picture of Nathan with a mustache instead of a thoughtful missive! It’s all good.
Sara – I am starting to realize that whenever I have high expectations of myself, I freeze up. Literally, I can’t even get started on the project b/c I’m worried about letting myself and everyone else down. Whenever I have low expectations or actually zero expectations, I perform well. Your mileage may vary of course, but consider not having expectations ๐
Karen, I can completely identify with your third-to-last bullet point. I have so many creative projects I want to work on, so many books I want to read, Netflix movies gathering dust, and stuff on the DVR. But there are so few hours in the day once all the have-tos are done to enjoy these things. I fully support your impossible-yet-alluring idea! ๐
Thanks for asking! I am at loose ends right now. I am doubting myself as a parent right now. My son has become increasingly stubborn about everything and I have no idea how to deal with it. He’s not quite 4. Yelling doesn’t help and in fact makes it worse, but I am at a complete loss. So 8 yell and feel bad. And then he yells which makes me madder. I am wondering if there are parenting books to help me, because I have no answers. I don’t want to lose my sweet boy. So this overshadows everything else in my world. I can’t enjoy books, scrapping, crochet or geocaching with this over my head. But I try to do things we love to keep some happiness in our world. I am spinning…