Moments of Gratitude – 17

this week has bits from our vacation together and visiting the kids’ school and going to the movies.

Here’s to Seeing more Magic in 2019.


Moments of Gratitude is a year-long project for 2019. You can read more about my projects for 2019 here.

Joy of Art – 22

the best part of winter is getting to snuggle up with a book.

These are small pieces I do at work or at home at night to help remind me why I love doing art. 


Joy of Art is a year-long project for 2019. You can read more about my projects for 2019 here.

Books I Read This Week 2019 – 23

This was a so-so reading week, for me. Here are my goodreads reviews. If you’re on goodreads, add me as a friend so I can see your books too! I’ve also started an instagram account where I join my love of reading with my love of art.


How to Draw and Write in Fountain Pen (4 stars): This book is a gem! if you like drawing and want to start simple and not buy a ton of art supplies, this is the book for you. 

It’s broken into three parts: basic drawing guidelines, a bunch of examples of things to draw, and several projects.

In the first section, the author breaks down fountain pens, how to hold one, how to make lines, what type of ink to get, etc. It’s simple, clear and organized.

The second part if chock full of simple drawings: food, clothes, plants, trees and so much more. Each drawing is broken down to three steps and feels very achievable. The book also has several alphabets.

The last section has several project ideas, things like cupcake toppers and gift tags, etc. All of them relatively simple and elegant and very useful.

If you have wanted to venture into fountain pens, drawing, or fun little projects, this book is a great place to start.


The Algebra of Happiness (3.5 stars):  This was a very quick read. This author, while apparently famous in some worlds, was completely new to me. While the book wasn’t at all what I thought it was going to be (info/data/learnings) it was really enjoyable. I liked his style and mix of no nonsense strong opinions mixed with self-deprecation that he kept having. His focus on people you love, family and focusing on what matters is always a good reminder.


The Printed Letter Workshop (3 stars): It took me a while to get into this book. I’m not sure if that’s because it had sort of a slow start or if it’s because I was distracted. I listened to this on audio and in the beginning the three women didn’t have distinctive enough voices to differentiate which made it hard for me to develop any sort of interest and empathy. But over time, as their stories developed, I found myself rooting for each of them and getting to know each of them. I still wish they were developed even further because they were each women I’d like to have gotten to know more. The book was sweet, even if a bit predictable, and I never regret a story about books and bookstores.


Anywhere, Anytime Art: Illustration (4 stars): This is a great starter book on illustration. It starts with a section on materials, media, and different styles. It talks about color theory and why it’s important to be thoughtful about the color palette you choose to evoke different feelings. 

It then moves to a wide range of projects, some of which I loved like drawing your neighborhood or hand lettering a meaningful word/phrase and others didn’t speak to me as much but I still loved seeing what the author produced.

There’s some step by step in this book but it’s a combination of instruction and inspiration, generally staying on the simple/introductory side of things. If you’d like to experiment of illustration, I think you will love this book as a starting place.


It’s a Numberful World (5 stars): I am squarely in the target audience of this book! 

I loved every single page of it, underlined pretty much half this book and have had several long conversations with my family as I was read it in. In fact, while we were driving to the beach, I read parts of it out loud to my kids. This book is the perfect combination of math, fun, learning, fascination, and joy! 

This book is broken into chapters, most of which are not intercorrelated (with a few exceptions) where there’s a new mathematical concept covered in each chapter. It mentions all things math like fractals, algebra, chaos theory, graph theory, encryption and more. I knew many of these concepts and yet it was still delightful to reread what I knew and fascinating to read what I didn’t know. 

If you’re a fan of math or have someone in your life who might not appreciate how magical math is and how it’s a part of every single aspect of our life, I think this would make an excellent gift. I hope they will love this book as much as I did.


The Book Woman of Troublesome Creek (3.5 stars): Historical fiction is not usually my genre of choice. But when it’s done well, it can be my favorite genre. This novel is about a time and region in history that I know very little about. At first, I thought the author made up the “blue skinned people” but as the story progressed, I thought it’s an odd detail to make up in a book that is otherwise not at all science fiction. 

I really enjoyed reading all of this novel. I liked the main character and several of the secondary characters and I really appreciated learning all the details about the small town. The bigotry and judgement are both woven into the story in ways that absolutely break your heart. And it’s another book about books. I loved learning about this time in history and this wonderful book delivery project.

Really enjoyed this one. If historical fiction is your genre, I am sure you will love it.


When We Left Cuba (3 stars): I enjoyed reading this historical novel. I did not read the previous novel by Chanel Cleeton so I can’t compare the two. I know nearly nothing about the history of Cuba and very little about the political period in American history. So I enjoyed learning about that period. 

It took me a while to get into the novel. I almost abandoned it twice but I am glad I stuck with it. It was interesting and a worthwhile read. I also liked the questions around where one’s home is. The topic of allegiance and patriotism are a big part of this story.


Inward (5 stars):

i was never addicted 
to one thing;
i was addicted to filling 
a void
within myself
with things other
than my own love

This book is wonderful. It was what I needed, when I needed it. It will resonate with you if you’re you’re interested in topics around self-love, freedom, and peace. Many will call it not poetry, and many won’t like it. That’s totally okay. I loved it.


All That You Leave Behind (2 stars): I just didn’t connect with this book as much as I’d hoped I would. I enjoyed the lessons Erin’s learned from her dad and I also enjoyed hearing about their family story but I just felt disconnected about the story the whole time. Sometimes it’s just the right book at the wrong time.


This Song Will Save Your Life (5 stars): I loved this book. 

I have not read anything else by this writer and I knew very little going into this book except that it covered topics around suicide. The thing I loved about this book is that I think it’s a real representation of high school and what it feels like to feel different and like you will never belong. There was so much I could relate to in here and yet it was completely not melodramatic in my opinion. It was real, raw, and not over the top. 

I loved the character’s voice. Many of the secondary characters weren’t super well developed but in this case it made it stronger because it brought the reader in the same telescope place as the main character where we were really limited to her perspective and her knowledge of each of these characters (including the parents.)

This one was a good novel for the younger me who would have really benefited from so much of this. It will stay with me for a while.


And there we go, an good week of reading. Here’s to a great week next week.


Books I Read this Week 2019 is a year-long project for 2019. You can read more about my projects for 2019 here. I am also tracking my books in real time on Good Reads here. If you’re on Good Reads add me so I can follow you, too! I’ve also started an instagram account where I join my love of reading with my love of art.

Stories from 2019 – 23

This story is about taking a moment at work and resting.

Here are two more stories from my 2018 album. The content for these comes from the “rest” kit and the “joy” kit.

This one is about the air hockey table we got the kids for christmas and what a hit it’s been.

Stories from 2019 is a year-long project for 2019. You can read more about my projects for 2019 here. Everything on the pages is from Ali’s Story Kits unless mentioned otherwise.

Everyday Magic – 23

Weekly Intention: soooo…i still didn’t do this: My intention this week is to make a prioritized list for the next two weeks. Five things I want to move forward in a major way at work and five things for me or home. Let’s make a list, let’s get it done. That’s the plan. Get out of the slump. yep i know it’s getting ridiculous but most days in the last week i’ve just survived and this is one of those thriving things. so this week here’s what we do: i show up, i am present and I do the best I can. This is a crazy week so I will just be present and have no extra expectations.

This month’s intention is: Big Magic: And here’s summer. Time to go big again. Add some magic to your days with your kids and husband. Take trips, add wonder and awe. If you’re going to go big once this year, this is the time. Oooh here we go. This month comes with David’s middle school graduation, a leadership course in Santa Cruz, and a family trip to the Galapagos. Let the magic begin. Super grateful.

One way I will show up this week:  calm.

One magic I will make this week: we will see if this summit is magical

This week, I will pay attention to: this seems like a good plan still: sleep and exercise since i plan to work hard.

This week, I will be kinder to: all the people being impacted by all the changes.

This week, I will focus on pleasing: peeps at work.

One new thing I will learn this week: i will get to learn a lot this week.

I am looking forward to: the summit and school being over 🙂

This week’s challenges: tuesday and wednesday will be very long. friday is graduation day so i expect that will be long, too.

Top Goals: 

  • Work: meet new team, execute on summit, schedule 1-1s with new team, and get organized.
  • Personal: daily drawing, exercise, journal, and yoga, sleep.
  • Family:  graduation! submit broadcom. love and hug my people. make a summer plan.

I will focus on my values:

  • Love: love for all the people who are going to be struggling.
  • Learn: learn to listen this week.
  • Peace: with the insanity this week.
  • Service: to all the PMs.
  • Gratitude: for my life.

This week, I want to remember: that the days are long but the years are so so short.


Everyday Magic is a year-long project for 2019. You can read more about my projects for 2019 here.

Weekly Reflection 2019 – 22

Magic I Saw this Week: So much magic this week. I was up at my kids’ school three times. Looking forward to what the kids are to expect next year at school and then going to 4th grade culmination. It is so much magic to see how they are growing up and becoming people i adore even more. Jake and my wedding anniversary was this week and it’s been magical 17 years. I can’t believe how quickly time passes. Magic to see sunshine every single day. Magic to see my friend Kelly this week even if briefly. I had a magic climbing session this week, too. Feeling so grateful.

Magic I Made this Week: The climbing this week was super magic i made, i feel proud of what I was able to climb.

Magic of Me that I explored Week: i did some reading and some journaling this week, not enough but a bunch.

Top Goals Review:  

  • Work: I pretty much got summit ready 100%, did not yet schedule 1-1s with new team, and have totally not gotten organized!
  • Personal: did daily drawing, only one exercise this week and a tiny bit of journaling, and no yoga, so-so sleep.
  • Family:  went to all the school events and hugged and supported kids. tried to help david decide about camp but I am not sure we made progress. helped a bit with broadcom but we have a bit more to do.

I celebrate: our wedding anniversary.

I am grateful for: another fantastic school year under our belt.

This week, I exercised: only once sadly. i expect next week to be much better hopefully.

Self-care this week: i got my hair and nails done, it was wonderful.

I showed up for: my kids.

I said yes to: doing what needed to be done this week.

I said no to: overthinking this week. trying to take it one day at a time.

Core Desired Feelings Check-in:

  • Embrace:  i am embracing the season and all the changes, and all the sunshine.
  • Alive: the sunshine really has a fantastic impact in my ability to feel alive.
  • Lighter: will feel lighter once the giant summit is over.
  • Kinder: working on this all the time.
  • Surrender: still surrendering pretty actively here.

What I tolerated this week: long days, especially Friday and no exercise.

My mood this week was: good.

I am proud of: the climbing, showing up for my kids, saying yes.

I forgive myself for: being tired, needing downtime, always being behind

Here’s what I learned this week: my kids are superstars. i love them so much.

What I love right now: that we’re about to start summer. change is hard for me but i adore summertime.


Weekly Reflection is a year-long project for 2019. You can read more about my projects for 2019 here.

Moments of Gratitude – 16

this week is full of tech challenge, flowers and just ordinary family time. it’s the only layout i didn’t finish all year so far.
a piece of art Nathaniel made at school

Here’s to Seeing more Magic in 2019.


Moments of Gratitude is a year-long project for 2019. You can read more about my projects for 2019 here.

Joy of Art – 21

choose love. another life book lesson.

These are small pieces I do at work or at home at night to help remind me why I love doing art. 


Joy of Art is a year-long project for 2019. You can read more about my projects for 2019 here.

Books I Read This Week 2019 – 22

This was a so-so reading week, for me. Here are my goodreads reviews. If you’re on goodreads, add me as a friend so I can see your books too! I’ve also started an instagram account where I join my love of reading with my love of art.


Fumbled (3 stars): I liked Alexa Martin’s previous book Intercepted and I was looking forward to this one. I will say that part of the reason this doesn’t end up in my “loved” bucket is because of what I read before. Sometimes I am in the mood for a book that’s light and sweet and other times I like deep, thoughtful books. I had just finished a few wonderful literary books, so next to those, this seems light and fluffy. Which isn’t bad in of itself, I am all for light and fluffy, I love all books, but I just wanted more here. I wanted a tiny bit more depth. I enjoyed the characters and I enjoyed the plot that flowed smoothly and easily. Once I started the book it kept me occupied and happy for a long while. But it won’t stick with me for long. Which is also just fine sometimes. If you like a light, sweet read, this will make you happy.


Walking on the Ceiling (3.5 stars):  “Stories have their own logic. For one thing, a story can only be told once it has an ending. For another, it builds, and then unravels. Each element of a story is essential; its time will come and it will ultimately mean something. In this way, stories are accountable, because they can look you in the eye.”

This strange, little novel was a quick read and yet had some thoughtful moments and gems. If you like plot-driven stories, you will be disappointed as this is more of a moment in time and it goes back and forth in time and in between Paris and Istanbul but nothing much happens. It’s not a character study either. You don’t get to know the characters (even the main character) as much and deeply as I like to (it is such a short novel after all.) It’s just a slice, a moment. 

But there are still many moments of beauty in the book and solid writing that makes you stop and think. Since I grew up in Istanbul, there were a lot of moments of reminiscence for me as well. I look forward to more of her novels, hopefully longer and meatier ones next time.


Good Talk (4 stars): What a gem. 

I had not heard of this book. I have no idea how I ended up deciding to read it. When I originally started the audiobook, I had no idea it was a graphic novel and thought I should not listen but read since it’s so visual. But then the audio book is so incredibly fantastic that I could not stop listening. Now I am going to go buy the book so I can also read it visually. This book is not just Mira’s story but it’s about immigration, about our fractured society, about what it means to raise a kid in a mixed family and when there are conflicting values and choices and the gray areas. It’s sad and funny and heartfelt and really beautiful. It is a thought-provoking story that will stay with me for a long time. Highly recommended both in audio and print!


Meet Cute (3 stars): I really enjoyed this quick and sweet book. I knew from the cover that this would be a light and breezy book and it turned out to be that way for the most part. A fast-moving, simple plot, a few tidbit mysteries here and there that were pretty predictable and not a huge amount of deep character development. But it was sweet and light and enjoyable. If you like light romance stories, you will enjoy this one.


The F*ck it Diet (3 stars): It’s hard to tell if this book came at the right time or if I picked it up because I am finally at a place where I want to listen to its message. Possibly the latter because while I really appreciated its message, there wasn’t much new here for me. The first part of the book can really be summarized in one word: eat. Eat what you want, when you want, as much as you want. If you’ve been dieting on and off forever, you’ve been starving yourself and your body needs food. you need to train it to get out of the starvation mode. And then the other parts are just to help you get there. Despite being more repetitive than necessary at places, there are some very useful exercises here and I will do them as many times as it takes for me to get the message and internalize it. Because until I am ready to define my worth by something outside of my body, none of these messages will matter. If you’re at the beginning of your journey, this book might help more. If you’re not ready for it yet, it will annoy you. If you’re like me, and somewhere in the middle, it will reinforce your thoughts but not really do the hard work for you. Because only you can.


The Secret Life (3 stars): This book was very short and yet powerful. I didn’t know anything about Maimonides or his philosophies. But I love much of what’s in here idea-wise. It’s just that they presented in a dry way that doesn’t help you really internalize it in a more visceral way. I’m still glad I read it and will be thinking about the book for some time.


The Bride Test (5 stars): Helen Hoang can write. There’s something magical in the way she weaves her characters. They resonate with me deeply and I can connect to them. I had liked The Kiss Quotient enough to worry about the second book and whether it would be as good. And I think in some ways this was even better. These characters have more depth, more emotion, more conflict and are represent what it means to be human more honestly. I loved even the secondary characters. 

I don’t know why but the audio version does not include the author’s note, I wish they would rectify that since it adds so much depth and perspective to both the author and this story. I can’t wait for more of Hoang’s books.


And there we go, an good week of reading. Here’s to a great week next week.


Books I Read this Week 2019 is a year-long project for 2019. You can read more about my projects for 2019 here. I am also tracking my books in real time on Good Reads here. If you’re on Good Reads add me so I can follow you, too! I’ve also started an instagram account where I join my love of reading with my love of art.

Stories from 2019 – 22

This story is about how i took a moment  to rest and go to a Turkish cafe while David was taking his test.

Here are two more stories from my 2018 album. The content for these comes from the “rest” kit. 

This one is about the the kids school and the amazing views you get to have when you’re there and how grateful that we made the choice to send our kids there.

Stories from 2019 is a year-long project for 2019. You can read more about my projects for 2019 here. Everything on the pages is from Ali’s Story Kits unless mentioned otherwise.

Everyday Magic – 22

Weekly Intention: soooo…i still didn’t do this: My intention this week is to make a prioritized list for the next two weeks. Five things I want to move forward in a major way at work and five things for me or home. Let’s make a list, let’s get it done. That’s the plan. Get out of the slump. i will attempt it this week. but i will also just be heads down, working super hard this week, getting ready for the big event next week.

This month’s intention is: Quiet Magic: Time to rest a little bit before things get crazy again. By the end of this month, you have graduations, parties, transitions, culminations etc. Use the time to add some quiet to the days and really connect with the magic in your life again. i’ve done nothing on this. i need to ponder.

One way I will show up this week:  working hard.

One magic I will make this week: i have a hair appointment which is always magical. and i will go to school twice so it’s a lot of little moments for me.

This week, I will pay attention to: sleep and exercise since i plan to work hard.

This week, I will be kinder to: can we go with everyone this week?

This week, I will focus on pleasing: my work goals and the kids’ school end of year meetings.

One new thing I will learn this week: more about organizational development

I am looking forward to: getting everything squared away for the summit hopefully.

This week’s challenges: wednesday and friday mornings i drive to school and then work. friday night i drive back to school. it’s going to be a long week.

Top Goals: 

  • Work: get summit ready 100%, schedule 1-1s with new team, get organized!
  • Personal: daily drawing, exercise, journal, and yoga, sleep.
  • Family:  school events and just hug and support kids. help david decide about camp. help with broadcom.

I will focus on my values:

  • Love: love for all the people who support me so much.
  • Learn: learn how to be present and change my perspective.
  • Peace: just peace this week.
  • Service: to figuring out what’s next.
  • Gratitude: how loved and appreciated i am.

This week, I want to remember: that i want to have faith and assume good.


Everyday Magic is a year-long project for 2019. You can read more about my projects for 2019 here.

Weekly Reflection 2019 – 21

Magic I Saw this Week: This was a tough week. I was too busy spinning to see magic. The week started with a visit from my nephew which was definitely the highlight. Most of the rest of the week I was too tired or grumpy to pay attention to anything sadly.

Magic I Made this Week: I went climbing with Jake on Thursday before work again. I finally booked our vacation to Hawaii and Nathaniel’s summer camp so that felt fantastic.

Magic of Me that I explored Week:I did not do much work here this week but I did have a tough conversation and I am proud of myself.

Top Goals Review:  

  • Work: hmm i didn’t really do what i wanted to do here. it’s been a lot of work trying to get ready for the summit so i am working on that.
  • Personal: did the daily drawing but nothing else.
  • Family:  woohhooo figured out summer #2, booked final camps. rested. spent time with my family. phew.

I celebrate: getting to spend the weekend with my nephew.

I am grateful for: a three day weekend.

This week, I exercised:it was the worst week this year. i only went rock climbing on Thursday this week and that’s it.

Self-care this week: not a ton this week.

I showed up for: hmmm not sure this week…

I said yes to: working hard and long and a very emotional week.

I said no to: sitting with how i felt.

Core Desired Feelings Check-in:

  • Embrace: i am embracing my feelings even as i don’t like them.
  • Alive: booked the vacation, woohoo!!!
  • Lighter: feeling much lighter after my tough conversation on friday
  • Kinder: i’m still working on being kind to everyone.
  • Surrender: i spent a week surrendering.

What I tolerated this week: very tough week. a lot of emotions.

My mood this week was: down.

I am proud of: saying what i feel.

I forgive myself for: how much i made stories in my head.

Here’s what I learned this week: that i make up a lot of stories in my head.

What I love right now: the sunshine is a game changer.


Weekly Reflection is a year-long project for 2019. You can read more about my projects for 2019 here.