Today had promised to be challenging with 5 different back to back activities in the evening and while I was excited about many of those, I was less excited about having them all back to back in one night.
I had no idea the morning would be challenging too.
I am just glad this day is over and that it ended well.
So for today I will be grateful I made it through and call it good.
Weekly Intention: There’s a lot going on this week to celebrate my wonderful husband. it might easily become too much so my intention is to stay present, take what i need and remember that i chose this.
This month’s intention is:Yes to Possibilities: Time to root and surrender. This is a hard month for you. Transitions are rough. But you also turn 47. It’s magical to get to have another year. Remember the growth mindset. Let go of your preconceived ideas and embrace the possibilities. yes to magic.
One way I will leap this week: i am enjoying tracking the daily checkin so i will continue with that.
One boundary I will set this week: i will take time alone when i need it.
One area where I will go deeper this week: celebrating my husband.
What do I need to sit with this week? maybe some thoughts for 2022
I am looking forward to: this week’s shenanigens.
Focus onCore Desired Feelings (lighter, kinder, enough, magic, wild): still feeling centered, lighter and connected to myself.
This week’s challenges: Wednesday is a really overloaded day, making it through this week might become challenging.
Top Goals:
Work: finish my calibration and start manager perf, move forward on September deliverables, think of more conversations, remember what matters most.
Personal: more journaling and art, find another class, exercise.
Family: climb with J, celebrate J, get david to do class+ACT, find something for N, help the kids with school and J with work
This week, I want to remember: Thank you for everything. I have no complaints whatsoever.
The Best Part of this Week: The best part of this week was a chat with my friend Sandra.
I celebrate: my sweet, wonderful husband’s birthday!
I am grateful for: kind people. i’ve had a very kind fence person help me this week and it was so deeply appreciated.
This week, I exercised: I’ve still been riding, climbing, doing core, arms, restorative yoga and stretching regularly. it’s been much more inconsistent this past week but I am still showing up.
This week, I said yes to: staying in the quiet place.
I said no to: getting riled up over things that don’t matter.
I honored my values (love, learn, peace, service, gratitude): i still feel like i am in the “good place” i feel calm and centered and able to notice my emotions.
Top Goals Review:
Work: did next iteration of perf, started on September deliverables, had conversations.
Personal: did a little more journaling and art, did not find another class, did rest a lot.
Family: climbed with J, get did david to do class+ACT, no more SAT with N, i did help the kids with school and J with work
This week, I want to remember: Thank you for everything. I have no complaints whatsoever.
My mood this week was: connected.
I am proud of: staying with the calm feeling.
I release: the unease, the unknown, and what didn’t get done.
Here’s what I learned this week: i have no complaints.
Today is my sweet, wonderful husband’s birthday. How lucky are we to get to have another turn around the sun, especially during times like these.
We celebrated with small presents, some nerdy awesome home-made gifts by the kids (a kernel extension that creates ASCII cake and a game that guides you through a confetti filled room.) and a lovely, fancy brunch.
Here’s us on the way home from brunch. I am so grateful for my family. I am so grateful for this man who has spent the last 27 years with me. He sees me, he loves me, he fills my life with light.
Helen Hoang is a very talented writer. She knows how to create characters that are flawed and 3-dimensional and really lovable and real. You empathize with her characters, their struggle, and you feel their feelings alongside them. You cheer for them. This book is no exception. Outside of the beautiful romance, it also tackles caring for the elderly and how it can take its toll on you, asking for help, adult ASD diagnostic and how it can affect your life, depression and more.
This book is absolutely wonderful. It’s a quiet book about a single mom and her daughter as they struggle with poverty and homelessness while they work hard to make their way through the world. The force with which this mom loves her daughter and the genuine struggles of the choices she is faced with and trying to understand how to do what’s right by her daughter make for a meaningful read. I kept waiting for some insane twist or terrible disaster to befall them which is a sentiment to how over the top books have been lately. Sad things happen in this book but it’s not flashy, it’s not trying to mess with your emotions, it’s quiet and real and absolutely beautiful.
I love color and really enjoy books that talk about color, so when I saw this book, I knew I would love it but, as it worked out, I had no idea how much I would love it.
I don’t know this artist and had never seen any of her work. This book contains sections on color theory and then some example step by step projects, many of which I really loved. As i read it, i felt really inspired to create and found myself filled with excitement and joy.
with gratitude to quarto books and edelweiss for an advanced copy in exchange for an honest review.
If you’d like to start drawing but don’t know where to start or if you’re stuck in general, this is such a gentle book to help you get started. it has 21 lessons, with several different styles and drawing tools (graphite pencil, colored pencil, and ink)
It contains art by the author and by some of her students so you can see a variety and range.
I really enjoyed the encouraging voice of the book and would recommend it to anyone who is itching to get started.
with gratitude to edelweiss and Quarry Books – Quarto for an advanced copy in exchange for an honest review
This lovely book is full of encouragement to let go of any of your preconceived rules and regulations around creating art. It encourages you to let loose, jump in with both feet and just have fun.
There is a great tutorial on binding your own art journal and then a lot of lovely ideas for art journal pages. These ideas vary in range and mediums they use but they are each filled with joy and relatively easy to get your creative juices flowing.
If you’ve wanted to start art journaling and didn’t know how, this book will be a fantastic start. If you’re stuck, if you need a good pep talk, if you want a friend cheering you on, this is the book for you!
with gratitude to quarry books and edelweiss for an advanced copy in exchange for an honest review
“She has learned from his dying that there is much she can do. She has also learned some things are unfixable. Which is this?”
This book takes place in the small town of Wharton, Connecticut and moves around different characters who are connected to each other, some loosely, some tightly. It tackles a lot of life events like cancer, addiction, suicide, loneliness, and more.
The characters are so real in this quiet and lovely book that it reminded me of both Anne Tyler’s novels and Olive Kitteridge. It’s a similar feeling of getting more and more attached these ordinary characters who are experiencing ordinary and tough life situations and they are so real that you can’t help but feel their feelings alongside them.
“Good for them, Freddie thinks. Good for them. She could write an essay about forgiving Greg for anything if it meant they could get to Alex and Kay’s age. She could get over any single thing—an affair, a gambling problem. Two affairs even. She never felt that way before, but now she knows, without hesitation, she could get past anything. She could forgive Greg for a whole list of things, except dying.”
I loved every single second I spent with this book. I cannot recommend it enough.
with gratitude to Scribner, netgalley and edelweiss for an advanced copy in exchange for an honest review