Daily Year of Yes – 289

Year of Yes – 289

 

My favorite moments about life are always in the little moments. Snuggling up on the couch. Laughing in the car. Watching my kids play. Joking around in the kitchen.

Those are all moments of magic.

Yes to magic.

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Daily Year of Yes – 288

Year of Yes – 288

Happy Friday. I am still working on doing a better job with rest and a better job with remembering what’s mine to carry and what’s not.

Always a work in progress.

Yes to being patient with myself.

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Daily Year of Yes – 287

Year of Yes – 287

It’s almost Halloween which means I can put my Christmas tree up soon. I’m not a fan of Fall but Christmas season is my favorite.

It’s performance evaluation season at work so I have been thinking a bunch about how to give and receive feedback. And how other people’s feedback might be valid and still it doesn’t mean I have to do anything about it. I can receive it, say thanl you and then decide if I’d like to incorporate it.

I get to decide which feedback matters to me and what I want to do about it.

Like other things in life,.I can choose if this happens to me or if I decide to be an active participant in the conversation. Having choice and knowing it’s up to me completely changes how I show up.

Yes to owning my own life and choices.

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Daily Year of Yes – 286

Year of Yes – 286

 

Tonight I rest.

I haven’t been sleeping properly. I keep waking up in the middle of the night and then have a hard time going back to deep sleep.

So tonight I will rest.

Yes to rest.

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Daily Year of Yes – 285

Year of Yes – 285

I am working hard not to hold on to what’s not mine to carry. Being intentional with how to help without fixing and how to be present and sit with things without rushing to solve.

All of which is so hard for me and yet so liberating when I can do it.

Yes to growing and learning.

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Daily Year of Yes – 284

Year of Yes – 284

I connected with an old friend today and it reminded me how magical and easy it can be to spend time with someone who knows you and sees you.

New friends can be fun and exciting and yet old friends are like comfy clothes that always fit you just right.

It’s always good to have a mix of both.

Yes to reconnecting.

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Review: The Love Hypothesis

The Love Hypothesis
The Love Hypothesis by Ali Hazelwood
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

3.5 stars.

Enjoyed this story quite a bit. It’s romance but it’s also about academia and it’s also about friendship. Quick read.

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Review: The Arrangement

The Arrangement
The Arrangement by Kiersten Modglin
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

This book was super over the top and that it has a bunch of crazy twists and narrators that are somewhat unreliable. All of which is usually a combination I am not fond of anymore but this book was clever and the twists all made me smile. Quite enjoyable to be honest.

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Review: Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself

Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself
Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself by Melody Beattie
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

I have so many things to say about this book. I think there were a lot of very interesting and valuable learnings in this book but I wish so many of the stories didn’t center around alcoholics and some of it was around the milder versions of codependency. It still left me with a lot to think about.

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Review: Apples Never Fall

Apples Never Fall
Apples Never Fall by Liane Moriarty
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

While I found this story quite long, I did enjoy the time I spent with it. The tennis family in the story and all the research Moriarty clearly must have done was interesting. Several of the characters were also interesting but, of course, the marriage and the relationship between the two main characters was the best part. Some of it felt a bit unbelievable to me, but overall I still enjoyed it.

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Review: Take Me with You When You Go

Take Me with You When You Go
Take Me with You When You Go by David Levithan
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

I loved this story of two siblings who are writing back and forth to each other while one of them has run away from home. There are many trigger warnings for this story, especially around domestic abuse but in the end, it’s a story about resilience and sibling support and making your own family in the world.

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Review: Rock Paper Scissors

Rock Paper Scissors
Rock Paper Scissors by Alice Feeney
My rating: 2 of 5 stars

meh. this was interesting for a while and i kept waiting to see what was going on. The twist was interesting, but it was all so over the top. I am done with these super over the top stories.

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