Review: Firekeeper’s Daughter

Firekeeper's Daughter
Firekeeper’s Daughter by Angeline Boulley
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

3.5 stars

I checked out and returned this book all year. I kept seeing it on best-of-year lists for the last two months so I finally decided it was time to read it. My favorite part was all the details of the reservation and how it felt to live there. I don’t read enough Native American stories and I always love them when I do. This was no exception. I didn’t adore it like some seem to have but I though it was a very well crafted story and I am really glad I ended up reading it.

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Daily Year of Yes – 363

Year of Yes – 363

Days are passing by and I am no longer crossing things off my list. Just being here and trying slow down time as much as humanly possible.

Two more days in 2021. I will not be sad to bid 2021 farewell. It was a tough tough year for me but it also came with a lot of growth and transformation. And we’re walking into another year of unknowns so that’s not delightful.

Alas we’re here now and we are safe and healthy and warm so far. I’ll take it.

Yes to being in the present moment.

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Daily Year of Yes – 362

Year of Yes – 362

 

One of my favorite things to do during this week is to dream up plans for next year. I know that some people feel fenced in by plans, not me. I love having plans, routines, goals. They energize me. They keep my days organized.

All of my goals might get accomplished or some might, it still gives me joy to sit here and dream them up.

Yes to dreaming up adventures.

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Daily Year of Yes – 361

Year of Yes – 361

 

Another day of climbing in the bag. I had a good session today and in grateful for all that my body can do. I’m so much stronger than I was in my 20s and 30s.

Enjoying this quiet time between the end of this year and the beginning of the next one.

Yes to the quiet.

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Daily Year of Yes – 360

Year of Yes – 360

 

I think I might have bought two things from an Instagram ad ever and two things from Kickstarter ever and this puzzle has the unique honor of being both.

I saw this ad about a puzzle called, @oddpieces.co, that comes with a comic book and you read the story and then put together the puzzle which isn’t exactly same as the picture that comes with it.

So then you make to puzzle to see how the story turns out. And then there’s another comic to read.

I thought it was a sweet and clever idea and I love making puzzles. So I ordered them. Months ago. They came just in time for the holidays and they are beautiful and high quality.

I don’t know them, this is not an ad. Just excited about taking a chance and getting lucky. And having some fun puzzles to put together.

Yes to taking chances.

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Daily Year of Yes – 359

Year of Yes – 359

 

We made it through another Christmas and both of the kids liked their presents. I call this a giant win. They’ve been playing in the other room together most of the day while we play in this room. Videogames for everyone.

Grateful for togetherness and happy teenagers and for getting to celebrate another holiday.

Yes to merry.

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Daily Year of Yes – 358

Year of Yes – 358

 

Happy Merry Christmas Eve.

The kids opened their Christmas Eve presents. ( I get them both the same present for Xmas Eve ) and the table is set. Now we relax and watch a movie.

Whenever you are, I hope you’re having a magical holiday season. I hope you are warm and safe and loved.

Yes to celebrating.

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Daily Year of Yes – 357

Year of Yes – 357

 

Feeling full today. Got the big boy boosted, went climbing, and went to see the matrix.

Excited about Christmas Eve.

Yes to the holiday season.

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Daily Year of Yes – 356

Year of Yes – 356

 

There are a single digit number of days left in this year.

I am not sure how I feel about this year coming to a close. I am finally starting to hit that part of vacation where I start to slow down and I am savoring all of the moments here.

I hope each day goes slowly.

Yes to savoring.

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Daily Year of Yes – 355

Year of Yes – 355

 

I woke up this morning at 3am and could not go back to sleep. My muscles are very sore likely from exercising too much.

So I came downstairs and rested for a while and went back to bed at 6am and woke again around 9am. This sort of discombobulated my whole day of course.

I also took it as a sign from the universe that it was time to rest.

So I checked off no items today. I just rested instead.

Yes to rest.

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Daily Year of Yes – 354

Year of Yes – 354

 

I have such a long todo list this week and every time I check off an item, I am adding two. None of the items are muat-do of course but I keep thinking I should do all these things because it’s vacation.

So I wake and all day I am counting down my list and stressing that the day is passing.

Which is all stupid and definitely not the point of vacation.

So from here on out the goal is to do one thing a day. I check one item off and I’m good.

Yes to pacing myself and to actually enjoying vacation.

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Review: Lessons in Chemistry

Lessons in Chemistry
Lessons in Chemistry by Bonnie Garmus
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

“Elizabeth simply refused to accept limits, not just for herself, but for others.”

This is one of the top three reads of 2021 for me. I have loved every single moment I spent with it. I loved Elizabeth, I loved six-thirty, I loved Mad, I loved every character in this book. I loved the story. I loved how serious and how light and profound and how enjoyable it was.

“Elizabeth revealed that there were hundreds, maybe thousands of others, and that no human spoke them all. In fact, most people spoke only one—maybe two—unless they were something called Swiss and spoke eight. No wonder people didn’t understand animals. They could barely understand one another.”

This is the story of Elizabeth, who is a chemist and then a TV show cooking host. She has a daughter Mad and a dog six-thirty in 1960s California. Her story is sad and harrowing and funny and energizing and deeply deeply inspiring. She is truly one of a kind.

“Chemistry is change and change is the core of your belief system. Which is good because that’s what we need more of—people who refuse to accept the status quo, who aren’t afraid to take on the unacceptable.”

The writing and characters in this book were exceptionally well done. The dialogue is sharp and on point. There are some major triggers for rape and a lot of sexism. Some might not resonate with this book or Elizabeth but, for me, it was one of the best I’ve read.

“Whenever you start doubting yourself,” she said, turning back to the audience, “whenever you feel afraid, just remember. Courage is the root of change—and change is what we’re chemically designed to do. So when you wake up tomorrow, make this pledge. No more holding yourself back. No more subscribing to others’ opinions of what you can and cannot achieve. And no more allowing anyone to pigeonhole you into useless categories of sex, race, economic status, and religion. Do not allow your talents to lie dormant, ladies. Design your own future. When you go home today, ask yourself what you will change. And then get started.”

I will not forget this story and Elizabeth for a long long time.

with deep gratitude to Doubleday and netgalley for an advanced copy in exchange for an honest review.

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