Tomorrow is Friday and I did two of the fifteen to do list items I had this week.
But I did read five books. I went climbing and I’m going to the movies. I exercised. I hugged my kids and hubby. I talked to my mom and my sister. I talked to my friend Kelly.
And there’s still tomorrow, maybe I can do the other 13 items then. Or maybe I’ll just read more.
We’ll see.
Yes to getting things done and yes to choosing to take a break.
I don’t have anything pithy today. Just thinking about how tired I am. I feel tired most of the day but the best tired is how I feel when I come back from the climbing gym or when I finish an exercise on the bike.
During those rare times I feel like I gave it my all and I have nothing left. And then I come home and take a shower and lie down on the couch and feel really good about how I used my time. This way I’m not tired because I’m overthinking things but I’m tired because I’m really working my body to its limits and I’m not in my head but I’m inside my body. For me it’s a rare and a good feeling.
That’s how I’m feeling right now.
Yes to trying harder. Yes to being inside my body.
And just like that little boy is now a seventh grader.
He started and ended his sixth grade year completely remotely. This year he learned a lot, wrote a lot, built several hardware and software programs, learned physics, did a complete SAT math book, and started learning Spanish.
He has not seen a single friend in person since last March. It’s been a long 15 months for little boy. If all goes well, he gets his second shot tomorrow and maybe, just maybe he might get to see some friends after two weeks.
I am very proud of his resilience and hard work in this last year. He continues to add sunshine to our lives every day.
We are almost halfway through this year. My kids will finish school end of this week. And then we’re off to summer. Within two weeks we will all be two weeks past our second vaccination.
As we approach the second half of this year, it’s a good time to think about what else I want to say yes to this year. A good time to take stock and think about where to double down, where to pivot, and where to let go.
I think this is the perfect week to do some introspection and journaling. Bring it on.
Yes to taking time to step back and evaluate. Yes to resetting.
My ideal way to spend my day is by the water, with a cold coke zero, some delicious snack, and a great book.
My husband, on the others hand, prefers to go on adventures, push his limits and experience life.
As I get.older, I am realizing that I will hopefully be lucky enough to read books to a very old, ripe age. But my years of living life and going on adventures, especially ones that involve physical stamina will most naturally decline as my years incline.
So now is the time to follow my husband’s lead and make the time to life that life. Breathe the fresh air and swim in the sea.
Little boy was bored this weekend and created a project for himself. He thought of the project, researched it, built prototypes and then executed on it.
It was pretty awesome to see.
It also reminded me that it’s fun to get lost in a new project for a while. Fun to jump with both feet in.
Yes to fun, yes to creative ideas, yes to jumping in!
So much of life is the stories we tell ourselves. There are so few “facts” and we spend all our time weaving stories out of those facts, trying to make them make sense.
Except that none of the stories are true. Because by definition they are stories. We rarely even know why we did something we did let alone why someone else did or didn’t do something.
So once you put it all together, there’s more story than facts in the picture.
All this is to say if I’m writing stories anyway, I might as well write stories that make me happy. Stories that empower me and make me the best version of myself.
Because whatever you think, you’re right.
Yes to making up more positive stories. Yes to looking for the good.