Review: The Echo Wife

The Echo Wife
The Echo Wife by Sarah Gailey
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

3.5 stars but rounded up only because it was so different. I liked that this book was unpredictable in how not-twisty it was. I enjoyed reading it and kept waiting for the twist and when it came it wasn’t that twisty and I was pleasantly surprised. Enjoyed the mix of scifi and mystery of this one, too.

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Daily Year of Yes – 65

Year of Yes – 65

I woke up this morning and went to the bathroom to brush my teeth. As I opened my drawer for the toothpaste, I decided enough was enough and I should clean the drawer.

Seven hours later, I had cleaned all of the bathroom drawers and all of my bedroom ones. I did not eat anything or do anything else. Little boy kindly brought me two teas during that time. I listened to “Klara and the Sun” and just worked.

It was absolutely not the plan for today but I am so glad I did it. It had been over ten years since I cleaned everything this thoroughly. I feel like my drawers can breathe again.

Amazing the amount of stuff you can accumulate in that time. I will say it also made me think about all the ideas, stories, thoughts and beliefs I’ve accumulated during this time too. I bet they could use some revisiting and sorting and shedding too.

Yes to impromptu cleanups!

#yearofyes #karenikayearofyes

100 Days of Radical Wellness – 35

100 Days of Radical Wellness – Day 35

Best part of going to the gym in a Saturday night is how empty it is!! I left everything at the gym today. I am sore and tired and so grateful.

Here’s to hoping the gyms can stay open.

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Daily Year of Yes – 64

Year of Yes – 64

Feeling grateful today for a healthy mix of everything. I started the day slowly, meditating and finishing my book in bed and then connected with my friend Kelly for a long while which was wonderful. And then I started doing lots and lots and lots of work and then read all my email. And then I exercised. And finally my husband and I went out to have some dinner.

A lot in one day.

But I feel full and happy. And readier for the weekend than I usually feel even though I didn’t finish all the work I’d wanted to.

Yes to getting things done and yes to connecting with people I love!

#yearofyes #karenikayearofyes

100 Days of Radical Wellness – 34

100 Days of Radical Wellness – Day 34

I have done a really poor job of keeping track of things this week. But I am excited to see that some of the wellness acts are now internalized for me. That’s the biggest goal for this project.

Make it automatic so it doesn’t feel like an effort.

Here’s hoping!

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Daily Year of Yes – 63

Year of Yes – 63

Last summer, as part of adding some fun into my days I subscribed to two monthly boxes.

One of them was a collection of snacks which was fun for a while but ended up not being as tasty for me so we stopped it a few months ago.

The other one was @ipsy which is a makeup sampler set. You get 5 items each month for $12. You can take a survey first so it’s more catered to your skin/hair etc.

I don’t wear makeup often and know nothing about skin care or how to put make up on to be honest. But I’ve still loved getting this little surprise in the mail each month. Because of what I prioritized I have received a lot of moisturizers and great brushes which I had none of. And now I’m slowly building a small stash of lipstick, blush and other things. Looking at this makes me happy which is a lot to say cause I usually hate waste and things that I don’t use but this doesn’t look like waste to me it just looks like possibility which is super fun.

I’ve also just started following them and I love everything this company is about so that’s just a complete added bonus that I hadn’t anticipated.

now I just have to start watching some videos and learn how to use all these products. I love the fact that it’s all small samples so I can use them and then decide if I like them and go all in. This is not an ad. I just put all my stash together today and realized how happy this little thing is still making me.

So here’s to small happinesses today. Finding ways to add a little bit of color and joy to these bleakish days.

Yes to adventures and fun with make up and skin care!

#yearofyes #karenikayearofyes

100 Days of Radical Wellness – 33


100 Days of Radical Wellness – Day 33

All the climbing gyms in the bay area are finally open again. I am very excited.

This hasn’t been the easiest week for wellness but I am still doing so much more than I was and this project is the reason why.

#100dayproject, #the100dayproject, #karenikaradicalwellness

Daily Year of Yes – 62

Year of Yes – 62

Today at work we had a half a day summit which was about recharging. I’ve had so much work lately that I thought it would be ridiculous to spend half a day talking about recharging instead of just getting my darn work done.

I was so wrong.

The event was so inspiring and calming and relaxing that I felt good all day and I still have a lot of work and it will still all get done. I’m glad I took some time out today and listened to smart and thoughtful people.

I need more of that in my life.

There’s always more work. It’s like sand, it fills into all the moments I have in my life so it’s my job to create space for what I want first and then let sand take over the rest.

Yes to being inspired. Yes to creating space.

#yearofyes #karenikayearofyes

100 Days of Radical Wellness – 32

100 Days of Radical Wellness – Day 32

For the second time this week, I ate out. Even thought it meant I ate past 6pm, it was worth it. The food was delicious, the walk was great, and getting out and talking was great.

All the climbing gyms in the bay area are now open so that makes me super happy too.

Here’s to being flexible and enjoying the little moments of normalcy.

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100 Days of Radical Wellness – 31


100 Days of Radical Wellness – Day 31

Well day two of March and I am no closer to picking my thing. And I missed all of the things from yesterday I think. So. There’s that.

I am still moving a lot. Food is a bit all over the place. Soul work is also all over the place.

I think I need to lean into those. I will come up with a plan 🙂

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Daily Year of Yes – 61

Year of Yes – 61

My husband and I woke up at 5:45 to take our chances at the climbing gym this morning. I had a last minute meeting scheduled on top of our pre-scheduled time so we figured we’ll try our chances at walk-in. We got dressed and drove to the gym and it turned out all the walk-in spots were gone.

So we decided we would try to go to a coffee shop near our house and see if we can have some breakfast. It was really cold so sitting outside wasn’t going to be an option. But when we got there, there were only three people inside so we were able to order food and sit inside to eat it.

First time since last March.

It felt amazing. I think because it felt just a tiny bit normal even though we were wearing masks in between chews and sips. Even though there was almost no one else inside. Even though we could only sit for a short little while to reduce risk. It still felt the closest to normal since last year.

Yes to tiny glimpses of normalcy. Yes to delicious avocado toast. And yes to coffee!

#yearofyes #karenikayearofyes

Daily Year of Yes – 60

Year of Yes – 60

I miss life before covid. At this point, I miss it every single day. I am tired of the sameness of every single day. Wake up, exercise, meetings, bed. Very few other things in the middle and mostly the same food every day.

So tired.

And if I could change it, I would do so without question.

And yet, I am so grateful to get to spend a bit more time with my kids. I would not have wished this upon them in any way. And I also know that in a matter of minutes they will be grown up and gone, creating and living and hopefully thriving in lives of their own.

So, amidst this terrible experience, I am grateful for a little more togetherness with these people I love so much.

Yes to togetherness, yes to seeing their smiley faces and getting hugs in the middle of the day.

#yearofyes #karenikayearofyes