Gone

In 1999, I bought a small fighting fish to accompany me at work. The little blue fish would sit in his cage and I would sit in mine and we’d go about doing out business of the day. Every now and then I would tap his tank, which is too big of a word for the tiny cup he lived in, and he would attack my pen like his life depended on it. He never quite reached my pen; he couldn’t figure out that there was a plastic layer between him and the pen. I would be gone for the weekend, sometimes for three days, but he’d always be there to greet me when I got back to work. I wasn’t very happy with work those days and it cheered me up to have something wating for me when I got there.

The day before I left for Tokyo, I brought the fishie home, so Jake could take care of him while I was gone. I woke up the next morning to find him floating on the surface. I figured my friend didn’t want to be a burden to anyone or didn’t like the idea of not seeing me for six months, the scheduled duration of my trip. That was the only way I could stop myself from being sad about having lost my friend.

My first week at work here, in San Diego, I dragged Jake to a pet store and bought another fighter. I had had my old one for almost a year and remembered his generous companionship and easy care. I took my fish to work and fed him daily and tried to talk to entertain him. “Here you go birdie,” I’d say each time. I have had a bird for the last eight years and am so used to feeding him that I would say the words before I thought them. After a few weeks of making the same mistake, I decided to name my fish “Birdie.” This way, he wouldn’t get offended at my mistake.

Birdie kept me company during long nights at work and came home with me at the end of November, when I started working from home. I put him in front of the balcony so he could watch the palm trees and enjoy sunny San Diego. In the last two weeks, Birdie kept staying at the bottom of his tank. I tried to entice him with food or with clean water, but he would appear momentarily before he sunk back into the bottom of the tank. I knew something was wrong but I had no idea what to do. I just hoped, like me, he was a bit gloomy and would go back to being happy soon.

This afternoon, my little fighting fish, Birdie, died. I’ll miss you my little friend.