Another pre-work book I read was Now Discover Your Strengths. Recommended by many and an interesting read. Especially in this way:
This fixation with weakness is deeply rooted in out education and upbringing. We presented parents with this scenario: Say your child returns home with the following grades: and A in English, an A in social studies, a C in biology, and and F in algebra. Which of these grades would you spend the most time discussing with your son or daughter? Seventy-seven percent of parents chose to focus on the F in algebra, only 6 percent on the A in English, and an even more minuscule number, 1 percent, on the A in social studies. Obviously, the algebras grade requires some attention because to progress in school and secure a place at a college or university the child cannot to fail a subject. But the question was phrased carefully: Which of these grades would you spend the most time discussing with your son or daughter? Despite the demands of today’s education system, does the most time really deserve to be invested in the child’s weakness?
It’s quite amazing but totally accurate that we tend to concantrate on our weaknesses and how to make them better instead of using our strengths to circumvent the weaker areas.
Here are a few more I’ve read since I last posted:
Recommended by a friend: Paypal Wars was a very badly written but really interesting read. Quite interesting to see how many times they came close to closing up shop and how many stupid business decisions were made and how strongly they depended on paypal.
And, of course, The Long Tail. Interesting and thought-provoking read and worthwhile for anyone who doesn’t understand the difference between online and offline retail and the potential in both. There are many, many people in the world and their tastes and interests vary drastically.
Karen,
This post struck a note with me since I’ve dealt with lack of self esteem all my life for many reasons. A book called, “The Smart Parenting Revolution’ by Dawna Markova was recommended to me (I have it but it’s still in my “to read” pile) and its focus is about emphasizing the strengths instead of weaknesses of our children. If you read it I would be curious to hear your take on it.