A person should be satisfied with his life not because he feels satisfied, but because he has good reason to be satisfied. - Bertrand Russell

I haven't talked about the happiness class in a while. I like Bertrand Russell cause I agree with many of his thoughts and statements. Mostly because they are so common-sensical.

I haven't read enough of him to say whether I agree with all of his thoughts or not, but I know I like the comments about satisfaction. The terrible thing about most of the people around me is that they have amazing lives and yet they are never satisfied. They live in anticipation. They keep waiting for the next step. The promotion. The raise in salary. More people reporting to them. The bonus.

There is no time to sit and ponder the current situation. There is no time to celebrate. There is no time to appreciate. Life is moving at an unbelievable speed. They need to live in anticipation of the next move. They need to worry about the next step and make sure they're not passed up for the promotion. There is no time to be satisfied. Satisfaction requires a different point of view. It requires one to slow down and deliberate.

Even if they managed to slow down, they'd never notice the problem. Their views are too distorted. They have absolutely no concept of how much money is 'enough.' They don't know what success is. They don't understand that life is passing them by and that they're giving up their youth to corporate America. Don't get me wrong, there's nothing with working in corporate America or making a lot of money. But there is something wrong with a twenty-some year-old who doesn't think that 100grand is a lot of money. There's something wrong with a kid who's only six years out of college and doesn't appreciate the power of having forty people report to him.

These people have long forgotten the feeling of satisfaction. Which is why I find Russell's words sensible. It's not about how you feel, it's about how things are. If you can't see it clearly, ask around. Try to remove your distorting glasses and look again. I'm not simply saying "Be glad you have arms and legs" though that's a more valid point than most make it out to be. I'm not saying be satisfied if you don't have a home to go to. I'm just saying that most of us have an incredible amount to be satisfied about and, for some reason, many of us can't seem to recognize that. I think we're so busy running around, trying to achieve the next thing that we can't feel satisfied. Or the satisfactions are too short and in between struggles.

So maybe Russell's right. It's not about feeling satisfied, it's about being satisfied because you have much reason to and maybe it's not a good idea to involve feelings. Maybe it's just a matter of being rational.

Previously? TV.