That's an actual quote from a friend.

I was raised with proper manners. My parents taught me to never go to someone's house empty-handed and to always send a thank-you note afterwards. Even when I visit my sister's home, I bring presents for my nephews each time, though mom doesn't have to twist my arm about that one.

While I try my best to be well behaved, I get totally peeved when I hear words like the ones above. When did nice gestures become expected requirements? I thought sending a card made you thoughtful but not sending one shouldn’t automatically make you rude. Cause if it does, then the cards are no longer a token of appreciation, they're a formality or worse, a requirement.

I hate doing things just cause 'it's the way things are done'. When my sister got married, as I spent shaking the hands of many practical strangers who couldn't care less about actually celebrating my sister's happiness, I told my mom that she should expect a call from me the day after I get married. If I were ever to get married in Turkey, there is a long list of people we'd have to invite 'just cause it wouldn't be right otherwise'. As the British like to say, 'that's bollocks.'

I am not fond of people with expectations. They're just setting themselves up to be disappointed. I'm not fond of people who judge others by what they forgot to do. I'm not fond of people who keep track. "I called last so now it's her turn to call." Huh? What grade are we in? I'm not fond of fake smiles and doing things cause I have to.

I shouldn't have to do anything. I should be able to smile, care, do my best and people should appreciate that. I believe that to be true of everyone. If you're trying too hard to fit in, maybe you shouldn't.

I decided long ago that I only live once and I want to make sure that I live the way I want to, not how others want me to. I want only the people who are my closest friends on my wedding day. I want to do (at least attempt to do) anything and everything I've dreamed of.

I always try hard not to hurt anyone around me. I screw up sometimes, but never on purpose. I always try to give and be the best that I can. I think that's all anyone can ever ask of me.

Previously? birdie's eyelids, big ears, and pottery.