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The End of The Affair 12 June 1944 Sometimes I get so tired of trying to convince him that I love him and shall love him for ever. He pounces on my words like a barrister and twists them. I know he is afraid of that desert which would be around him if our love were to end, but he can't realize that I feel exactly the same. What he says aloud, I say to myself silently and write it here. What can one build in the desert? Sometimes after a day when we have made love many times, I wonder whether it isn't possible to come to an end of sex, and I know that he is wondering too and is afraid of that point where the desert begins. What do we do in the desert if we lose each other? How does one go on living after that? He is jealous of the past and the present
and the future. His love is like a medieval chastity belt: only when he is there, with me, in me,
does he feel safe. If only I could make him feel secure, then we could love peacefully, happily,
not savagely., inordinately, and the desert would recede out of sight. For a lifetime perhaps.
If one could believe in God, would he fill the desert? I have always wanted to be
liked or admired. I feel a terrible insecurity if a man turns on me, if I lose a friend.
I don't even want to lose a husband. I want everything, all the time, everywhere. I'm afraid of
the desert. God loves you, they say in the churches, God is everything. People who believe that
don't need admiration, they don't need to sleep with a man, they feel safe. But I can't invent a
belief. I'd never read Graham Greene and I found this book an intriguing read. Maybe cause I can identify so well with the jealousy voiced above. The religious context was interesting to read but I'm not religious so it did nothing for me; I mostly concentrated on the affair itself and the well-portrayed obsessions. Today's passage comes from the prolific Graham Greene's The End of The Affair. |
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